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I DONT KNOW WHO OWNS MY PREGNANCY

Posted: 10:53

I am 14 years of age. I got deflowered by one of my classmates during an inter-house sports competition in the school. Although it was painful in the beginning but I ended up enjoying it. Since then, it has become a routine between us. Recently, another boy came to our school; from the first day, I set my eyes on him, I felt something deep inside of me for him prompting me to ask him out. I allowed him to sleep with me on that day. It was so much fun and excitement that I decided that I wanted him more than my former boyfriend. This led to the two of them fighting and would have become a scandal if my second boyfriend didn’t walk away. Although my first boyfriend is hell bend on continuing with me, so much so, he forced himself on me two weeks ago; it isn’t as much of a problem as the one I want you to help me with some advice. I think I am pregnant. I haven’t seen my monthly flow which was supposed to come since last week. The funny thing is, I don’t know who among them has it. I am wondering if any one here can help me with some advice on what to do now since I had my last period, on August as at that time, I was having sex intermittently with the two of them since my first boyfriend was still adamant. I only stopped about two weeks ago after which he forced me to having sex with him. I don’t know what to do or the money to terminate the pregnancy. We are starting our promotional examinations to SSS 3 soon. My father is a pastor while my mother is the head of the women in our church. Please can you help suggest where I can go? My friend has already given me some herbal solutions to take but I haven’t since I am afraid of the look of the thing she brought. Telling my parents is also out of it. They are too strict and uncompromising. My father really doesn’t have any time for us as his children while my mother is always busy trying to please her husband. The truth is, I am desperate enough to do anything including dying if possible.

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4 comments:

  1. The parent strictness could be issue to their kids sometimes and lack of care by been too busy isn't a cool option.
    Other things I can accept, but not like killing yourself, don't even think about that.
    Have your kid no matter what, on the long run, it's gonna be ok

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  3. If you are 14 and you have a kid then it will ruin your body. Since your body, muscles, and skeletal system hasn't had the time to mature, If you decide to have the kid you and the kid might not make it. There are some doctors that would be willing to do an abortion for free because of your age. You'd have to seek them out though.

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  4. Hi,
    I disagree with the people above. When you first got your period, around 12, you were ready then to get pregnant and have kids.
    You don't know which male made you pregnant, but you can find that out by DNA of their blood compared with that of your kid, after you have him, the test done at a blood analysis laboratory.
    You will begin to show, sooner or later and perhaps it is better to face your parents wrath now, than leave it until they see and make you account for your pregnancy.
    I am against abortion, especially as you are so young, but if it is an option and you feel that is the best way for you, then by all means go ahead, as soon as you can and before the baby starts to grow inside you.
    There is a time limit for abortions, it might be around 10 to 12 weeks, but I really don't know.
    The problem with having unprotected sex, is that inevitably, sooner or later, you are going to get pregnant, so really you should leave sex out of it, but if you must, wank the guy off, suck him off, or practice anal sex, because you can't ever get pregnant that way.
    Is it possible for the family of either boy to take you in, during your pregnancy and to protect you from your parents, while they provide you with food and accommodation.
    At days end, if either family of either boy would, then better that boy think he is the father and leave things that way, irrespective of who the father might be, otherwise, as your survival must take priority, so that you can support your child when he is born, with the assistance of that family.
    Good Luck

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